Sunday, November 19, 2017

Consequences of Lost Wills and Trusts; Where to Keep Your Trust


We get a lot of questions about what to do if a Will or Living Trust is lost. Unfortunately, this question generally arises after a loved one has died and the heirs have begun the process of settling the estate.

If you think you’ve lost your Will

  • You can only have one Will, and the one with the latest date will supersede all others.
  • If an attorney prepared the Will, contact that attorney to see if he/she has the original.
  • Contact your Executor(s) to see if you gave it to him/her.

In the eyes of the law, if a Will is lost, it is presumed to be revoked

If someone finds a copy after you die and your heirs are willing to sign an affidavit that you did not intend to revoke your Will, the court will accept the copy. If neither the original nor a copy can be located, your estate will go to your legal heirs, regardless of what was in your Will.

What happens if you have lost your Trust?

Families also contact us about what they can do if a Living Trust is lost or they can’t find it. If you lose your Trust and die, not only will your Successor Trustees be missing valuable information about how you wanted your estate distributed, but they may be faced with moving assets that are titled in the name of the Trust into your Probate estate.
If a Trust is lost, and the decedent has assets titled in the name of the Trust, the court will require that the heirs/Successor Trustees spend a significant amount of time and money searching for the Trust and documenting the search process. This process involves Probate court and all of the expenses and fees associated with Probate—exactly what you hoped to avoid by creating a Living Trust in the first place!
Once any Trust assets are moved into the Probate estate, the full Probate case begins to distribute the assets. All of this translates to more time and more money. This scenario is extremely labor-intensive and expensive. We encourage our clients to keep their Trusts in a secure location and to share that location with at least one other family member.

If you lose your Trust or Will while you are still alive

If you’ve lost these legal documents while you’re still alive, California Document Preparers can assist in creating a new Last Will and Testament and/or Living Trust. You can restate your entire Trust, creating an updated Trust with the same name and origination date as your initial Trustwhich will replace your old Trust.

Where should I keep my Trust?

We always caution our clients to keep the original Trusts in a secure place in their homes or offices. As a backup, you can give a copy to your successor Trustee and/or another trusted friend or family member.

Is a safe deposit box the answer?

A safe deposit box may not be the best solution, as it could require a court order to open the box if it’s in your name without a joint owner. This means your Trustee wouldn’t have immediate access if you became incapacitated or died.
  • Don’t want to name a joint owner? Title the safe deposit box in the name of your Trust. In this way, your successor Trustee could gain immediate access to your safe deposit box if needed.
  • Keep your Trust in a fire/waterproof safe in your home or office. Share the combination with someone you trust.
  • If these other options are not realistic, keep your documents on a high shelf—away from floods, children and animals.

Most importantly, make sure your family knows the location of your Trust

Make sure your family knows you have prepared your Living Trust. In addition to the bound copy of your Living Trust, we can provide an electronic version, and many families share this with their heirs. Remember that many years may elapse between the time the Trust is prepared and the time it is needed to settle an estate, and circumstances can change. Successor Trustees themselves may die or become incapacitated. It may be advisable to share the Trust with several trusted family members. Most of all, don’t hide it —if people can’t find it now, there’s little chance they can find it when they need it.

Creating a Living Trust is an important part of end-of-life planning

If you’ve lost your Will and/or Trust, or you would like to create one, contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, November 8, 2017

Summary Dissolution: A Simplified Divorce Process


Remember the old thing about “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas?” 

Our client, “Matt”, spent a wild weekend in Vegas and ended up married. He and his wife, “Zoe”, realized that whatever happened in Vegas clearly stayed right there. By the time they got home, Matt and Zoe knew they had made a very bad mistake.
Annulments are granted in very limited circumstances, and the court does not consider short-term marriage as grounds for annulment, so they were exploring their options. Zoe was leaving for Mexico in two months, and they wanted to complete any necessary paperwork before she left.

Summary Dissolution: A simplified Divorce process

Fortunately, the California courts offer a Summary Dissolution, a simplified Divorce process. If the parties meet the qualifications, the Summary Dissolution involves fewer steps and less paperwork than a Divorce. The couple submits a joint Petition to the court, and the court sends them a filed judgment order approximately six months and one day from the day the Petition is submitted. (By California law, a Divorce must take at least six months and one day to finalize.)

Qualifications for Summary Dissolution are fairly stringent:

  • Fewer than five years between the time the couple got married and the time they separate.
  • No children have been born to the two of them before or during the marriage.
  • They have no adopted children under 18 years of age.
  • Neither is pregnant.
  • Neither owns any part of any land or buildings.
  • Their community property is not worth more than $40,000 (excluding vehicles).
  • Neither has separate property worth more than $40,000 (excluding vehicles).
  • The total of their community obligations (other than vehicles) is $6,000 or less.
  • At least one of them has lived in California for the past six months or longer and has lived in the county where the filing is occurring for the past three months or longer.
  • They have prepared and signed an agreement that states how their possessions and debts are to be divided (or they have no community property or community obligations)
  • Both are willing to sign the joint Petition and all related documents to carry out the agreement.
Fortunately, Matt and Zoe qualified for a Summary Dissolution, and they completed our workbook together. We prepared the legal document, the Joint Petition, within a few days, and they came in to sign it and have it notarized. After paying our fee and the county court’s fee, we took the Petition to be filed with the court. After the required six-month window had passed, we called Matt and Zoe and confirmed that they had received their order from the court. Their Dissolution was final, and their brief marriage was officially over.
Family law is an important legal document assistance area for us. We’ve helped hundreds of couples get divorced. For those who may be contemplating Divorce, we are happy to answer questions and explain how we work with our clients. Contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, November 1, 2017

Complexity of Blended Families Creates Need for Multiple Trusts


“Julie” came in to our Oakland office to get more information about creating a Living Trust. She and her husband headed a blended family, and theirs was a complex scenario. Wanting to avoid going to an attorney, she was hoping we could help her. She and her husband, “Jerry”, had both been previously married, and each brought children and assets to their relationship.

Julie and Jerry owned two properties together, and they agreed that these properties would go to Jerry if she passed away first; after he died, they would be divided among their collective five children. Julie also owned four properties that were in her name only, and she wanted these properties to go directly to her three children when she died--not to Jerry or his two children.

After carefully reviewing her estate and options, she decided to prepare two Trusts:

  • A Joint Trust would be created to hold their community assets, including the two properties that Julie and Jerry owned together. They agreed that the surviving spouse would inherit these assets. After he the surviving spouse died, these assets, including the properties, would be equally distributed among the couple’s five children.
  • An individual Trust would be created just for those four properties Julie owned as her separate property; upon her death they would be distributed among Julie’s three children only.

This was a clever way to separate assets, allowing for different distribution strategies

  • We would help Julie and Jerry transfer title of their jointly owned properties into the Joint Trust, and these assets would go to the surviving spouse. After the death of the survivor, these would go to the beneficiaries they named in their Joint Trust.
  • We would also help Julie transfer title of her separate properties to her Individual Trust. Since their Joint Trust can be amended by the surviving party, Julie took the extra precaution of segregating these properties because her Individual Trust becomes irrevocable and unamendable after she dies. Julie wanted to avoid any confusion about wanting to distribute the four separate properties among her three biological children.
While Julie and Jerry could have stated in the Joint Trust that these properties were to be given upon Julie’s death (rather than after the death of both of them), sometimes spouses worry that circumstances may change after their deaths and their wishes won’t be followed. These Trusts are now structured so that Julie’s wishes will be carried out.

Creating a Living Trust is an important part of end-of-life planning

Contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Thursday, October 26, 2017

Estate Planning: Wait Until 70 to Draw Social Security?


Many of the clients who come in to our offices are either creating or updating their Living Trusts. They’re often older, and if not retired, they’re thinking about it. As a result, we hear many concerns about healthcare, social security, disability insurance and hospice.

Jane Bryant Quinn discusses timing of Social Security payouts

Jane Bryant Quinn, the personal finance expert who writes for the AARP, discusses when to start taking your social security payments in her article, Don’t Rush Social Security. Many people start at 62 because they need the money; others wait until they’re 67. But Quinn encourages people to wait until they’re 70 because their monthly payout will be a whopping 76% higher than if they’d begun receiving their payments at 62. For those who are married, waiting will also provide the surviving spouse with a larger survivor’s benefit.

What about the strategy of drawing social security at 62 and investing the money?

Let’s say your circumstances and investments allow you to make a choice: Would you be better off drawing Social Security at 62 and investing the payments? One expert, Bill Reich­enstein, a professor of finance at Baylor University, has created a powerful Social Security calculator that allows him to apply filters, such as the effect of taxes on the additional income, probable return on investments, and cost-of-living increases. He created various scenarios, taking into account the average life expectancy of a 62-year-old, and found that it’s better to wait until you’re 70.
For instance, if you take your Social Security benefit at 62 and start growing the funds through investments, how long would it last if you then started drawing from that fund at age 70 at the monthly amount you would have gotten if you’d waited? Unfortunately, not long enough. Your fund would be gone by the time you reached age 81. That may be average life expectancy, but 40% of people live longer than that and half of those will live into their 90s. With the fund now spent, you will have to do with the reduced benefit you took at age 62.

A valid case for drawing Social Security at 62

If your health is failing and you are not worried about a spouse getting a larger survivor’s benefit, the best decision may be to start drawing at age 62. If you are not going to need the benefit and want to start drawing and investing it, you could leave a fund for your heirs. Yet for most of us, good judgment and Bill Reich­enstein prevail; it’s difficult to beat the system. Investing those Social Security benefits taken at 62 will not beat the lifetime return of those benefits you draw at age 70.
Creating a Living Trust is an important part of your retirement planning. Contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, October 18, 2017

Distribution of Assets: Beware Property Tax Consequences



A recent experience with a Living Trust client brought up an issue that frequently surfaces for those who are dividing their estates among their children. “Joe” and “Marilyn” were planning to gift real property equally to their son, “Tony” and daughter, “Sarah”. In the beneficiary section of the Trust, they also were granting the residue (the remaining assets after all specific gifts have been made) of their Trust estate to Tony and Sarah equally.
In each case they named an alternate beneficiary in the event something happened to either Tony or Sarah. For both the property and the residue, the alternate beneficiary was the other sibling. This seems straightforward, but it creates potentially significant property tax ramifications for Tony and Sarah.

Background: Prop 58 excludes transfer of real property from reassessment

In 1986, voters in California approved Proposition 58, which excludes real property from being reassessed when it is transferred from parent to child. When the primary residence is transferred, there is no limit on the value of the property. For property other than the primary residence, there is a limit of $1 million per transferor.
This means that instead of reassessing the property at its current value, the assessment of the current Prop 13 value results in significantly lower property taxes. For Joe and Marilyn and their family, this means that when the property is transferred equally to Tony and Sarah, there will be no reassessment at that time (if they wish to exercise their exemption).

Sarah and her family are living in the primary residence

The situation gets a little more complicated with this family, as it does with many of our clients. Sarah and her own family are currently living in the property and plan to remain there after Joe and Marilyn die. Sarah can buy Tony out, but the assessor will treat the transfer this time as that of one sibling to another—which means that this time it will be without the exemption, so that 50% of the property would be reassessed at current values. In today’s inflated real estate market, this could result in an increase of a few hundred thousand dollars in assessed value and skyrocketing property taxes.

This scenario caused our clients to reconsider

Joe and Marilyn began rethinking how they would split their estate between their children. If they included the property as part of the residue of the estate, this gave Tony and Sarah additional options. If the Trustee valued the total of the estate and then split the estate, one half could include the home that one child wanted and the other half would include a total of equal real and liquid assets. With this scenario, the transfer of the home to Sarah would qualify for the exemption on the entire value of the home. No buyout would be required and no transfer from one sibling to the other would be necessary—avoiding the potentially huge property-tax burden. Tony could receive real property and assets equal to the value of the property that Sarah was inheriting.
California Document Preparers assists clients with the creation of Living Trusts, transferring property into the Trusts, and assisting Successor Trustees in transferring properties to beneficiaries. We also can assist in transferring property to your children now. The implications of the Parent-Child Exemption should be considered in any Deed transfers between parents and children.
Contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment or to get more information to help make informed decisions. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Tuesday, October 10, 2017


We helped a Berkeley couple, “Brad” and “Sonya”, get a Legal Separation four years ago. They’d been married for eight years and had two young children. Their relationship had become increasingly troubled, yet they were not ready for Divorce; rather, they believed that taking the steps to legally separate was the right solution for their family at that time. Just as with Divorce, a Legal Separation requires division of property and a parenting plan. Brad and Sonya were both professionals generating good incomes, and they agreed that Sonya would get the house, and be responsible for refinancing it in her name alone. They shared custody of their two children, but since the kids spent 70% of their time with their mother, Brad agreed to pay child support.

Four years later, they were ready to get a Divorce

The four years of Brad and Sonya’s legal separation did nothing to repair their relationship, and they agreed that it was time to get divorced. Over the period of their separation, both spouses had been promoted, increasing their salaries. Both had made investments, and Sonya had inherited her grandmother’s Tahoe cabin. They had never executed a Deed transferring the home to Sonya, so we immediately prepared a Deed transferring the property to her, enabling her to refinance the family’s home.

Once a legal separation is finalized, the case is closed . . . but a couple is still married, with the responsibilities of a married couple

Legally separated couples need to keep in mind that even if they are officially separated, they’re still married. If, like Brad and Sonya, they decide to divorce, they must start a brand new case and prepare new documents. If a couple wants to keep their agreement the same, the documents can reference their previous judgment, but if they want to make additions or changes to the division of assets or the parenting plan, they must submit a new agreement.
While a separation can take just a few months (effective as soon as the judge signs the document), California legally requires a minimum of six months and one day from the date the spouse is served for a divorce to be official. Some legally separated clients who proceed with a Divorce are surprised that they can’t simply sign off on the change of status, and Brad and Sonya’s case clearly illustrates why this wouldn’t be the best course of action, even if it were possible. Circumstances can change dramatically over the course of an extended separation—for better and for worse, which necessitates revisiting a couple’s collective assets and debt and how they plan to share in the raising of their children.
If you’re considering a Legal Separation or if you’ve decided that it’s time to go through with a Divorce, contact California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Thursday, October 5, 2017

Trust Update: 25 Years Later, a Completely New Document


Oakland resident “Henry” came in to update his Living Trust after his wife died. Their Trust was amendable by the survivor, and he wanted to make some changes. Henry and his wife had created their Trust 25 years ago, and while it named their five children as beneficiaries, it did not address the fact that two of their now-adult children had special needs.

A lot had changed in 25 years, including the addition of new grandchildren

Henry wanted to add his five grandchildren as beneficiaries—all had been born after the Trust’s creation. Henry was active and in good health, but his wife’s death had made him aware of his own vulnerability, and he wanted someone to help him manage the Trust’s assets immediately. His son, John, was a CPA, and while Henry was closer to his artist daughter, Kate, he knew that John would be the better choice to help manage his estate.

As often happens, we discovered real property that had not been moved into the Trust

There’s a reason why we urge our clients to review their Trusts periodically or after important life events. A lot changes in 25 years. When we investigated the status of his real properties, we found that they were no longer in the old joint Trust. Since these were the only assets they had originally deeded into their Trust, and they were no longer in it, Henry decided that the old trust was so dated that it made sense to start from scratch, creating a new Trust and moving all of the appropriate assets into it. He would also address the life changes that had taken place since the first Trust some 25 years before, including adding his new grandchildren and making accommodation for his two special-needs children. Henry completed the appropriate workbooks for us, including those to establish two Special Needs Trusts as well as the transfer of his three properties into the Trust.

Another obstacle: Incorrect Deeds which needed to be unraveled

When we were preparing the Deed transfers to go into his new Trust we could see that the property descriptions for two of the properties were incorrect. After exploring this with him, we found out that more than 20 years ago, he had split one property into two. No new property descriptions had been written, and the last recorded Deeds were incorrect. With the help of the county assessor, we were able to discern what needed to be done to help him correct the property descriptions and transfer the properties into his Trust. This was important because Henry was leaving one of those properties to his son.

Important features of the new Living Trust

  • John was immediately named as co-Trustee; if Henry became incapacitated or simply needed help with Trust assets, his son could take over without requiring the involvement of doctors.
  • Two Special Needs Trusts put the beneficiaries’ shares in the hands of the Successor Trustee to manage so his children did not lose the public benefits to which they are entitled.
  • After Henry’s death, shares for Henry’s five grandchildren will be controlled by the Successor Trustee who, at his discretion, can use the funds if needed for their welfare or education until they reach an age Henry designated.
California Document Preparers prepared the new Trust, an updated Power of Attorney, and Advance Health Care Directive and called Henry when it was time to sign them. He was immensely relieved to have these documents brought up to date.
How long has it been since you prepared your Living Trust? Like Henry, there’s a very good chance that there have been significant changes to in your life. Call California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment to amend your Trust. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Divorce: “Petition to Publish” Rather than Serving Your Spouse

A sad young man who lived in Albany, “Ben”, came into our Oakland office. He and his wife were married for 15 years; they’d separated 18 months ago and he was still devastated. His wife had moved away, and he wanted to file for divorce, hoping this would create some finality so he could get past this. There were no children, so this significantly simplified the divorce process for this couple.

Filing a Petition to Publish

Benjamin had done some research, and he wanted to file a “Petition to Publish” rather than having to serve his wife personally because he didn’t know—but more importantly—he didn’t want to know where she was living. He was still very hurt about his wife’s leaving, and he thought it would be easier if he didn’t have to meet with her in order to serve her.

Service by publication: publishing the summons in a local newspaper

According to California law, if you don’t know the whereabouts of your spouse or domestic partner to properly serve him/her with your filed summons and petition (or some other document), you can ask the court for permission to serve your papers "by publication" or "by posting." "Service by publication" means that you publish the summons or other document in a newspaper of general circulation in the area where your spouse is likely to live. The summons must be published weekly for four consecutive weeks, and the publication invoices accordingly.

Getting court approval for a Petition to Publish can be difficult

The courts strongly encourage personally serving documents on the other party, so it can be difficult to get a Petition to Publish approved by the courts. Even though our client was willing to pay additional fees to have the paperwork prepared, he realized that, as part of the paperwork, he couldn’t swear under penalty of perjury that he had made every effort possible to find his wife. The courts require that the petitioner diligently record every effort he/she has made in the effort to locate the other party, which can be very time consuming and may include:
  • Publication in a newspaper in the last known city the respondent lived.
  • Detailed logs of attempts to locate the missing spouse through internet searches and social media.
  • Checking DMV records.
  • Scouring the white pages.
  • Contacting relatives and persuading them to divulge the address.
Most people find the process of searching and documentation daunting. They realize that it would be easier to reach out to likely sources and locate the missing spouse than try to get court approval for a Petition to Publish. Ben agreed that getting a divorce was his primary goal and this process would further delay his divorce.

Ben renewed his search, located his wife and hired a process server

Ben restarted his search and eventually found a friend who provided his wife’s current address, and he hired a process server to serve her with the dissolution paperwork, circumventing his having to personally interface with her. Now that his wife has been served, as long as she does not file a response with the court, we will be able to help him finish the dissolution process without her involvement, easing the divorce process as much as possible for Ben.
Are you thinking about Divorce but need more information about how we work with our clients? Call California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

"Forgotten" Tahoe Property Results in Probate


Probate is never easy for a family. It comes at a time of loss and grieving. Depending on the complexity of the estate, it can be extremely time-consuming, and it can be expensive. There’s generally also a sense of remorse. If parents or loved ones had only created a Living Trust, funded it and kept it updated, all of this could have been avoided.
Danville resident “Kathleen” recently came in to our Walnut Creek office seeking information and direction. Her Mom had died peacefully in her Walnut Creek home in July and Kathleen was now in charge of settling the estate. Thankfully, at the urging of her daughters, mom had created a Living Trust and Kathleen trusted that all of her assets were titled in the name of the Trust.

A Tahoe vacation property had never been moved into the Trust

In reviewing the paperwork, however, Kathleen realized that her mother’s Tahoe vacation home, which the whole family had enjoyed over the years, had never been moved into the Trust. In order for Kathleen to settle the estate so she could divide the assets with her siblings, she had to sell the Tahoe property, which meant Probate. Kathleen would have to open a Probate case, then be appointed by the court as Executor of her mother’s estate.

A Living Trust must be properly funded and updated

When a Living Trust is set up, it is important that all assets be transferred into the Trust, including vacation property. Note that this also includes timeshares—something that frequently gets overlooked. California Document Preparers can help with Deed transfers anywhere in the United States. Kathleen learned the hard way–having a deed prepared and recorded is a lot simpler and much less expensive than Probate.

Of course we do Probate!

Unfortunately, more than 50% of Americans die without a Living Trust, which means their heirs must go through Probate. If the Probate is uncontested, California Document Preparers can help you—and also help you save a considerable amount of money. Call today for an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Estate Tax Law Changes Make it Time to Amend Dated AB Trust


Many of our clients are coming in to simplify their old AB Trusts. The AB Trust was originally designed to create estate tax savings by keeping the deceased spouse’s property out of the estate of the surviving spouse. In 2011, however, a dramatic change in the federal estate tax laws exempted most estates from paying any estate taxes. For 2017, for example, the exemption is $5.49 million, which quickly eliminates the vast majority of Americans.

How the AB Trust works

When the first spouse dies, the Trust is divided into two Trusts: Trust A and Trust B. Trust A receives half of the couple’s community property and the surviving spouse’s separate property. Trust B receives the other half of the community property, and the separate property of the deceased spouse, but with the surviving spouse named as life beneficiary of the Trust. The surviving spouse can receive all income from Trust B and may also receive some principal, if Trust A is exhausted.

Results of the estate tax laws changes

The results of the estate tax law changes mean that an estimated 1% of the US population now pays any estate tax at all. This makes the old AB Trusts dated and cumbersome for the vast majority of Americans.

Limitations of the AB Trust

  • Restrictions on what the surviving spouse can do with AB Trust property can make it difficult to sell assts.
  • The surviving spouse cannot make gifts of the AB Trust’s property to anyone.
  • There can be substantial costs involved in managing the AB Trust after the death of the first spouse—preparing taxes and ensuring that this property is kept separate from that of the surviving spouse.
The reality is that the AB Trust is no longer necessary or advisable for estate planning. We are helping many of our clients amend or restate their Trusts to remove the AB Trust provisions.
Do you and your spouse have an AB Trust that you’d like to amend? Call California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Thursday, September 7, 2017

Estate Tax Law Changes Make it Time to Amend Dated AB Trust


Many of our clients are coming in to simplify their old AB Trusts. The AB Trust was originally designed to create estate tax savings by keeping the deceased spouse’s property out of the estate of the surviving spouse. In 2011, however, a dramatic change in the federal estate tax laws exempted most estates from paying any estate taxes. For 2017, for example, the exemption is $5.49 million, which quickly eliminates the vast majority of Americans.

How the AB Trust works

When the first spouse dies, the Trust is divided into two Trusts: Trust A and Trust B. Trust A receives half of the couple’s community property and the surviving spouse’s separate property. Trust B receives the other half of the community property, and the separate property of the deceased spouse, but with the surviving spouse named as life beneficiary of the Trust. The surviving spouse can receive all income from Trust B and may also receive some principal, if Trust A is exhausted.

Results of the estate tax laws changes

The results of the estate tax law changes mean that an estimated 1% of the US population now pays any estate tax at all. This makes the old AB Trusts dated and cumbersome for the vast majority of Americans.

Limitations of the AB Trust

  • Restrictions on what the surviving spouse can do with AB Trust property can make it difficult to sell assts.
  • The surviving spouse cannot make gifts of the AB Trust’s property to anyone.
  • There can be substantial costs involved in managing the AB Trust after the death of the first spouse—preparing taxes and ensuring that this property is kept separate from that of the surviving spouse.
The reality is that the AB Trust is no longer necessary or advisable for estate planning. We are helping many of our clients amend or restate their Trusts to remove the AB Trust provisions.
Do you and your spouse have an AB Trust that you’d like to amend? Call California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Thinking about Divorce? 7 Ways to Keep it Affordable



Many couples considering divorce may be miserable, but they remain together because of the economic difficulties of splitting their assets and their lives.
Divorce rates dropped during the recession and began to climb again when the economy improved. One of our clients and his wife had purchased a large home in Alamo when times were good; when the recession hit, he lost his great job and they lived on one salary—hers–in a home with a huge mortgage. The economic pressures destroyed what was left of their marriage, yet they couldn’t afford to get divorced, so they lived in separate camps in that huge house that they tried to sell, but no one was buying. Unfortunately, this kind of story is not uncommon. But while the economy is now stronger, couples who come in to our offices for assistance with their Divorces invariably have been thinking about this for a long time, and economics is often the primary obstacle.

Divorce often requires downsizing, including selling the family home.

There are now two households to support, and it may mean downsizing or selling the family home. But Divorce doesn’t have to be financially crippling. There’s another important factor: the emotional toll that highly contested legal battles and their financial aftermath take on the family. No one emerges unscathed from these battles, and it can leave children scarred.

Fortunately, there are alternatives.

1. Counseling

This should be your first consideration. Even if you tried counseling and it had no lasting effect, it might be time to try another therapist. Do some research and to find someone who’s a fit for you; there’s a lot at stake.

2.Agreement on distribution of assets, custody and a parenting plan

If Divorce is inevitable, sit down and try to reach an agreement on how you’re going to split assets and debts, child custody arrangements and how you will share parenting responsibilities. If you can’t reach an agreement, hire an experienced mediator that you both trust. Mediators are results-oriented and will work with you to identify solutions.

3. Quit worrying about what you think is fair

Fair gets very subjective. Forget also about what you’ve learned from other people’s Divorces. Look at the big picture—an equitable division of property and peace and sanity for your family.

4. Don’t expect the judge to resolve your issues and defend your rights

Figuring this out is your responsibility; the legal system is not designed to address personal family issues. Your overriding concern should be your children—putting their needs first to make the transition as smooth and normal as possible is the ideal. Keeping kids in the same schools and neighborhoods creates continuity, but they also adjust to new routines.

5. Figure out when it is time to just let it go

In the interest of time, expense, and emotional fatigue, start to get used to compromise.

6. Make a complete and accurate list of all liquid assets, income and expenses

Don’t rely on your spouse to do this for you. Gather all the information you need and then begin the process of division with your spouse. If necessary, a financial adviser can be an excellent investment. In many cases, a neutral outsider can give expert advice on the best way to decide the long-term value of retirement accounts vs keeping and maintaining the family home, etc.

7. Consider hiring an alternative organization to assist you

If you and your spouse can reach agreement on division of property and custody issues, California Document Preparers can take the sting out of the financial impact of hiring an attorney. We’ve helped more than 2,000 people get divorced, and they never have to set foot in court. We prepare the legal documents and file them. In the rare cases where people still have issues to resolve, they often find that our office environment provides the privacy and neutrality that helps them work through issues.

Are you considering Divorce?

Call California Document Preparers at one of our three Bay Area offices today to schedule an appointment. Our dedicated family law specialists are happy to answer your questions about the process, including the timing and how we work with our clients. You can also use our easy-to-use, secure online storefront to jumpstart the process–we’re still available by phone and email if you have questions. We’re helpful, compassionate and affordable.